In pursuit of happiness

When I was thinking about this week’s newsletter, I thought of something like “pursuit of meaning”. Then I remembered that what is meaningful to someone may not be that meaningful to another person. What we are all looking for is fulfillment, a state of inner happiness and satisfaction because of our labour, work or activities. Have you ever sat back to ask yourself, “why am I doing what I am doing?” If you have figured out the reason for doing what you do every day, then I would say “congratulations”. We all know that life is more than being born, going to school, then going to more school, getting a job, starting a family, working for 35 years, retiring and then counting the rest of our days. There must be more to life than the average monotonous life most people live.

Meanwhile, happiness is not as far-fetched as most people think. The reason the majority are not satisfied in life is because their labour, work and achievements are directed at themselves. It doesn’t matter how rich or successful you are, it will be challenging to find fulfilment until you start living for something outside of yourself. Most people find meaning and fulfillment by doing things bigger and greater than their own self. There is the sense of happiness we feel from within when we contribute to worthwhile causes that benefit others, fulfilling needs and solving problems in society.
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When we think about doing something worthwhile for others or for our community, it is easy to think about Mother Teresa and Nelson Mandela. However, you do not need to do anything outrageous to measure up. In fact, finding happiness from what we do has nothing to do with measuring up. What is required in a heart that genuinely cares about others and is willing to sacrifice time, effort and resources to make life easier for others and for all. It is all about service to humanity. Perhaps this newsletter is part of my own service to humanity, among many other things. How about you? What are you contributing through your work, relationships and activities in pursuit of happiness?

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Actions for the week

1. It is time to answer the “why” question. Take some time to think about why you do what you do daily. Is there are greater reason behind your endeavours?
2. Decide to live for something outside of your personal benefit. If you are already doing so, think of ways to improve what you are doing.
3. Think about specific people you can help or support this week. Go ahead and provide what they need. 

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A quote to remember
The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. – Mahatma Gandhi

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Until another time,
Dele Ola, Award-Winning Author of Be A Change Agent
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